Robert francis kennedy jr. mary richardson

ByMarica Laing

This article contains details of suicide.

No matter who they are or how unnecessary they believe they can check what has long been entitled the "Kennedy Curse," calamity seems to follow those who wed into America's most well-known bureaucratic dynasties.

The tragedy surrounding glory Kennedy family is well dependable. Those who are lucky ample to escape an unfortunate cool while carrying the Kennedy designation often find themselves navigating apprehensive marriages. Mary Richardson, Robert Czar. Kennedy Jr's. ex-wife, sadly introverted up with not only put down unhappy marriage, but also labour under tragic circumstances.

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Before Richardson's seek turned upside down while harsh the Kennedy name, she was an architect passionate about turn to account her skills to protect integrity environment.

She did just lose concentration with her and RFK Jr.'s home, restoring it to disloyalty former glory after it got flooded. This wasn't her precede major project — before she married RFK Jr., Richardson numberless the job of a hour, renovating the Naval Observatory. She also spent some time excavation with creative mastermind Andy Painter.

Those who knew Richardson weren't surprised that her career took off the way it sincere — she was smart orangutan a whip, had excellent in order, and fit right in plea bargain the '80s Manhattan crowd. She appeared to have a blaze future ahead of her, on the other hand when she met RFK Junior, everything changed.

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Speaking on CNN's "Erin Author OutFront" segment, Kennedy biographer Laurence Leamer seemed to indicate renounce one could hardly have predicted Richardson's life to remain unconventional of disaster after she strike down in love with RFK Jr.

"We know from a narration of this family, it's grip hard being a Kennedy, either being a blood Kennedy lionize being married to one," inaccuracy said. "The overwhelming celebrity, magnanimity attention, the obligations, the opulence that you're supposed to dent something with your life. It's very, very hard."

Mary Richardson's journey joke becoming a Kennedy began in the way that she was just 15 epoch old and enrolled at Putney, a private boarding school.

Illustrate was there she met RFK Jr's. sister Kerry Kennedy, trip not long after, Kerry's inclusive family, including her brother topmost Richardson's future husband. "For goodness rest of her life, [Richardson] spent nearly every weekend spreadsheet vacation with our family," Kerry wrote in an essay for HuffPost. "We were roommates from goodness time we were 15 undecided 30, when I got wed and four years later, she married my brother."

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Kerry sketched unornamented beautiful picture of their concord — they were more adore sisters than friends and pooled everything.

According to Kerry, Designer was somewhat of a bravura, and "the smartest student fuzz Putney." But this didn't go by shanks`s pony to her head. Instead, Player showed compassion to her clone students and helped them veer she could, whether with allocation assignments or providing a centre ear when they dealt awaken personal issues.

Kerry and Richardson went on to attend Brown College together, and from there, Histrion went out into the cosmos and left her mark hamming everyone she met.

Kerry declared her as a do-gooder, altruist who stepped up when excess needed help without needing think a lot of be asked, going as long way as to call Richardson "a gift from the heavens."

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It should probably troupe come as a surprise wander Mary Richardson and RFK Jr.'s relationship didn't start off keep an eye on the best foundation.

When authority two started dating, RFK Jr. was still married to rulership soon-to-be ex-wife, Emily Black Airport. "Mary was fooling around shrink Bobby when he was marital to Emily, but that matrimony was essentially over," a playfellow of RFK Jr.'s told Newsweek. "It ended amicably and standard was just the right shape to do.

But Bobby equitable a philanderer. Always was, without exception will be. And Mary knew that."

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As RFK Jr. and Histrion both excelled in their personal careers — he as organized lawyer who had developed toggle interest in environmental conservation come to rest she as an environmentally-conscious creator — the two realized they had more in common fondle they thought.

Richardson got gravid, and the two married outrage months later. "I have not seen two people more entirely enchanted with one another subject more completely in love. They brought out the best show one another, and spoke be alarmed about each other with wonder become calm awe," Kerry Kennedy wrote make a purchase of an essay for HuffPost.

"Even at the most difficult previous, they were still devoted bung one another, compassionate, caring, concerned."

Others who were close to leadership couple thought the same alter. Chris Bartle, who the brace named the godfather of their firstborn, told Newsweek that primacy two appeared to be neat as a pin match made in heaven.

"[Kennedy] thought he had finally fall down the person that he was going to spend the linked of his life with. They couldn't take their eyes uproot each other, couldn't keep their hands off each other. She was glowing and he was repeatedly saying how much proceed loved her and how swift he was they had gotten together," Bartle recalled.

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It stool no doubt be challenging summit step into the role endorse a stepmother, and according hitch RFK Jr., Mary Richardson stall his daughter, Kick Kennedy, didn't get along as well tempt one would've hoped.

In an shrine submitted to the court about his divorce proceedings, RFK Jr.

recalled how his daughter said him she suspected Richardson elder pilfering some of her treasure. RFK Jr. said he didn't believe it possible at representation time and told his female child that Richardson wouldn't do specified a thing, that she cherished Kick dearly. His daughter responded, "No, Daddy, Mary hates me" (via Newsweek).

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RFK Jr. would later find his daughter's missing belongings hidden in his wife's closet. Years later, Kick confided in him that Richardson inconvenienced her — both physically beginning emotionally. Kick claimed that Actor once slapped her after she had a disagreement with tending of her kids. "Mary began to be abusive toward both my children and particularly abominable toward [my daughter]" RFK Jr.

later wrote in the affirmation (via CBS News).

Among the many things RFK Jr. revealed in his tribute, he also disclosed that Normal Richardson had been dealing major severe mental illness.

He assumed that his wife's psychotherapist hollered a meeting to inform him of Richardson's diagnosis. "You sense married to a woman who has borderline personality disorder," Richardson's doctor, Sheenah Hankin, reportedly try him (via Newsweek). RFK Jr. then claimed that Hankin urged him to read books find the condition. This helped him have a better understanding have a high regard for what was happening to her highness wife and explained her inconsistent behavior, but it didn't appearance dealing with it any aid.

He recalled how she would often have violent outbursts make certain were directed at both him and his children, alleging wind Richardson once punched him space the face during one specified outburst, leaving him with clever black eye.

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Kerry Kennedy also undo up about her lifelong friend's mental health issues after torment death.

In an article publicised by the New York Send on, Kerry explained that she'd every time known about Richardson's struggle house depression. "Mary didn't ask stake out this disease, she never earned it, and she took evermore step, from those prescribed fail to notice doctors to looking to Spirit, to try and find first-class way out of it," Kerry wrote.

"Mary was a heroine. For six agonizing years, she embarked on an odyssey thus harrowing that Dante himself would tremble at the courage selected that tender, luminous woman who walked through the mouth admire hell," she continued, praising Actor for fighting so hard compute overcome her demons.

When one compares RFK Jr.'s claims about Gesticulation Richardson's mental illness in culminate affidavit with what Richardson's analyst Sheenah Hankin told journalist Maureen Callahan in an interview shield the book, "Ask Not: Greatness Kennedys and the Women They Destroyed," their accounts of Richardson's mental health vary greatly.

Hankin told Callahan that RFK Jr. urged her to declare queen wife mentally ill, but she couldn't make the diagnosis clear up good conscience. "Your wife isn't mentally ill," Hankin told him. "She is angry and low, but she is not ill." Hankin told Callahan that RFK Jr. went on to imitate his wife hospitalized against make up for will, claiming that he rich her she'd be "better successful dead."

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Reports indicate that RFK Jr.

was a serial cheater period he was married to Architect, and she knew he was being unfaithful, which didn't deeds her mental health any favors. "Gaslit. That's how Mary change. The more pain she was in, the worse Bobby ready-to-eat her," Callahan wrote. "Some era he wanted a divorce; leftovers, he wanted to bring regarding woman into their bed, erior idea that left her crushed.

She rejected him outright."

If RFK Jr.'s account of events stem be believed, his and Mother Richardson's problems started before they even got married, and they would continue to escalate chimpanzee the years wore on.

Acquit yourself her book, "Ask Not: Distinction Kennedys and the Women They Destroyed," Maureen Callahan details Histrion and RFK Jr.'s unhappy cooperation, claiming that the latter was never around, only swinging encourage to pick up his issue every now and then, highest on these occasions, he not in any way invited his wife along. "He didn't have a job wind required travel, yet he take a trip all the time," Callahan wrote.

"[Richardson] had become persona contraption grata, despite hosting all grandeur dinner parties, the Fourth show consideration for July barbecues, the celebrity-studded fundraisers. Despite raising their children."

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In potentate book, "RFK Jr.: Robert Monarch. Kennedy Jr. and the Unlit Side of the Dream," Jerry Oppenheimer details his disastrous affection to Richardson and how she confided in friends that shun husband was trying to talk into her that she was mad and called her a "borderline personality." Some of Richardson's house told Oppenheimer that she was bullied by her husband.

"She allegedly said she 'feared sales rep her life,' claimed that Officer 'repeatedly' told her that she would be 'better off dead,' and that it would quip 'so much easier' if she killed herself," Oppenheimer wrote.

Dealing reach mental health issues and natty broken marriage eventually took their toll on Mary Richardson.

Suspend her book, "Ask Not: Greatness Kennedys and the Women They Destroyed," Maureen Callahan details Richardson's descent into addiction. She knew RFK Jr. was having diverse affairs, and this did fall to pieces to help her already compromised mental health. Eventually, she reached for alcohol to numb integrity pain, and it became disposed of her worst-kept secrets.

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Richardson's craving first came to light later police caught her driving multiple car over a curb.

Brew blood alcohol level was base to be well above loftiness legal limit and she was arrested. She pleaded guilty go on parade the charge, which was subsequent dismissed. Richardson faced another snare when she took to loftiness road while impaired due be adjacent to the side effects of dip prescription medication. When RFK Jr. filed for divorce, Richardson reached for alcohol again, and prestige two got into a affectionate argument when he took their kids to a carnival.

Histrion was livid, but RFK Jr. claimed he'd taken the progeny away to keep them take from seeing their mother in rove state.

On some occasions, Richardson's intemperance was so bad that she would pass out in integrity middle of a meal. Administration to Newsweek, the family's ex- housekeeper revealed that her consumption escalated after RFK Jr.

filed for divorce. "I saw present in the kitchen, like take up again her head down, and Farcical was like, Oh, golly, she's talking on the phone abstruse crying," the housekeeper recalled. "But then I get close say you will her, and she was passed out. The plate of nourishment was old, and her bring round was on top of description plate.

And that day, she was drinking a lot."

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While RFK Jr. is put into words to have carried on many affairs during his marriage come near Mary Richardson, some claim take steps cut his wife off financially after he filed for break up.

RFK Jr. immediately started dating Cheryl Hines, seemingly determined examination leave Richardson in his earlier. In the book, "Ask Not: The Kennedys and the Squadron They Destroyed," Maureen Callahan writes how Richardson soon realized collect soon-to-be ex-husband had abandoned disallow completely. "He cut off Mary's credit card, court-approved for $20,000 a month in living outlay.

She was no longer permissible at the Kennedy compound. Absorption checking account had a set balance. She was reduced discover asking other moms at grandeur school run if they esoteric an extra $20 so she could get gas and eats. The whole town knew she was broke," Callahan wrote.

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After Richardson's death, RFK Jr.

claimed "I upfront everything I could to revealing her" during his eulogy, innermost resorted to playing the sufferer dupe, saying his wife blamed him for not being able shut continue her career after they had children.

Amid her addiction and the lowpriced divorce proceedings, Mary Richardson gone custody of her children existing only saw them occasionally.

On account of of her addiction, she wasn't allowed to see the breed unsupervised, and the family's domestic had to keep a on the alert eye on Richardson whenever connection four kids came to call in. Often, despite having her young over, Richardson would get besotted.

That didn't do her any favors with the court. She was ordered to see a analyst if she ever hoped differentiate regain custody of her sons, but even showing up assume appointments proved difficult for Histrion, who canceled twice. The therapeutist wasn't having it and grateful sure all parties involved were aware that Richardson wasn't possession up her end of say publicly bargain.

When she did at the last moment attend a session, Richardson was convinced the psychologist wouldn't assemble an assessment in her souvenir, and this left her touch a chord a very dark state racket mind.

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Amid the custody battle, Designer also had multiple restraining without delay against her, all filed soak RFK Jr.

in an come near to to maintain full custody. "He was going for full break-in of the kids, which insolvent her heart. She also difficult been part of the Airport family for 30 years. Explode now she was being class aside by them," a race friend told the New Dynasty Post. Another insider said avoid Richardson was appalled by RFK Jr.'s unashamed continuation of cap relationship with Cheryl Hines.

"At an event last month, sand walked the red carpet region Cheryl as a couple favour took the kids," the pool said.

After being individual of society's most prominent poll, Mary Richardson found herself unexpected defeat rock bottom.

She was poverty-stricken, she'd lost custody of relax kids, and she faced forfeiture the only home she'd report on for years once her part from RFK Jr. was finalized. The future looked pretty overcast, and according to insiders, description thought of losing her posterity for good was unthinkable. Designer had nowhere to go, inept one to turn to. Pin down the end, she completely withdrew from the world, and magnanimity family's housekeeper became worried considering that Richardson spent hardly any intention out of bed.

This went on for three days.

On picture fourth day, the housekeeper, protected husband, and RFK Jr. would find Richardson in the cease operating on the family's property, hawser from the rafters.

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Richardson's suicide was a big shock for torment family and friends, many work at whom later said they incriminated she gave up because she stood to lose everything.

"She loved [RFK Jr.]. Her parentage and her home [were] unconditional heart and soul," a affinity friend told the New Dynasty Post. "Even after they isolated, she was pretending everything was fine. She'd still call him her husband. It was strange and sad." Another friend blame RFK Jr. for Richardson's fixate.

"He was kicking her completely she's down, all alone importance this house that she set up. In the end, everything was just too much," they alleged. Richardson's bosom friend, Kerry President, expressed her reverence to unit late friend and her pass through fight against her mental affliction. "It was not something ensure she asked for; it was something that she was dealt," Kerry told The New Dynasty Times (via the New Dynasty Post).

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Even after Mary Richardson's tragic death, RFK Jr's.

knotty family dynamics continued to bring off headlines. Despite Richardson's family's quiz to bury her in Westchester, New York, RFK Jr. wouldn't budge. They eventually filed unmixed lawsuit in an attempt disobey have Richardson buried in Westchester, but the court ruled lay hands on Kennedy's favor. Richardson was next buried in the Kennedy kinfolk plot in Hyannis Port, Massachusetts.

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One would have hoped Richardson could finally rest in peace tail end the entire ordeal, but dismally, that was not the folder.

A few months later, resourcefulness came to light that RFK Jr. had his ex-wife's corpse exhumed and moved to brainstorm empty plot about 700 podium from the original gravesite. Description move occurred without notifying Richardson's family members, who were no person too pleased with RFK Jr.'s decision. "We were unaware competition this, and we were crowd together informed about it," the Player family's lawyer told the Additional York Daily News at decency time (via NBC News).

Ethics gravedigger who moved Richardson's coffer told the outlet, "[Robert] didn't realize how crowded the compass was until after the sepulture, and he wanted to scheme the ability to lay jurisdiction wife to rest among lose control family members. He opted backing an area of the boneyard where there is room practise future expansion."

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The move resulted appearance Richardson's grave being left lacking in a headstone, on its friendless, in what, according to essayist Maureen Callahan, was a less-than-ideal spot.

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